Now I know this happened months ago but because of the recent news about my dad these pictures have become a treasure to me. For those of you who don't know, my dad has been diagnosed with two types of cancer, kidney and colon. They removed a mass about the size of a softball from his kidney but according to doctors there is nothing they can do for the colon cancer. He will be receiving chemo to "prolong life" but at this point it is not curable. They have given us a year at the most. It has been a very emotional time for our family.
I know many of you have known my pops for years and are aware of the ups and downs surrounding his health. The challenges with his health are nothing new. But nonetheless this comes as a great heartache to our family. I have received comments from people that I know have been made to be helpful or consoling but have actually been more hurtful than helpful. We know he has fought a good fight and been through a lot but we still need him and want him to be a daily part of our lives. And yes, my dad has been in a wheelchair and fought health issues for a majority of that time, but still he is no less my father to me than your fathers are to you. He has suffered a great deal of pain for many years but he is only 61, very young. And we will miss terribly and all the wonderful memories, love and laughs he provides.
For now we move forward in faith knowing that we have been given the precious gift of time. We will use the time we have been blessed with to create more memories and bonds, cherishing all the time the Lord desires to give us together.
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I love these picture. Dad and little Pei Wei : )
Cute pictures! We love you guys, and wish you all the best through this difficult time. Fun to see your recent posts.
Well Sweet Lady, I am so sorry to hear the news about your dear dad, what a kind gentle man he is. It is very hard to see the struggles with this horrible desease. but you are right it will be a blessing to spend as much time as you can with him, precious time!! I lost my dad 24 years ago to with cancer uggg, my Meg was just 8 months old, today is my parents 67th wedding anniversary. Bless your hearts, your mom will really depend on you, it kind of goes in turns you will be strong, then she will be strong for you, and you will all be strong for him, I know you will treasure the times together make memories! sweet memeories! give both of them my love. and hey Id love to see ya and those cute kiddos. give me a call when you have time. 480-545-8124. I'll keep checking on you here, your in my prayers.
Oh Kristina... I am so sorry to hear about your dad. A friend in my ward is in her 40's and her mother is dying. We have cried as she said "You know, it doesn't matter how old you are- you never want to loose your parents". A long time ago I once thought after I was grown and out of the house that it would be "ok" if I lost my parents. Now I see the relationship and love my kids have with them and what I hope it will continue to grow into and I just can hardly bare the thought. Please give them both (your dad and your mom) a BIG HUG from me.
We are so sorry to hear of this latest battle! Keep us informed & let us know what we can do for you!
Kristina, I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad. He is a great man and I have many fond memories of spending time with your family. I always think of your Dad's quick wit and sense of humor.
We'll be praying for him and your whole family.
I'm sorry to hear that people have been hurtful to you in a time when you need help the most. I think some people just don't get it. And I don't know exactly what you're going through because I haven't had to cope with losing a parent. I do know the heartache that comes from watching someone with cancer. There is no way around it--it sucks. Cancer sucks. I think sometimes it's good just to remember that. And you're right, it doesn't matter that your dad has already been through so much. That's the point! He's survived all the trials that have been placed before him and now the doctors are telling you he can't survive this one. I can't imagine how hard of a pill that must be to swallow. I'm so glad you posted these pictures and your feelings. Your daughter is gorgeous and you will always treasure these memories!
I'm so glad I found your blog. It's fun to be able to catch up with friends from back in the day.
Your dad is awesome and I am very sorry to hear about his condition. We moved back to Harris 2nd and I just want to let you know that your family is always in our prayers.
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